To feel abashed means to feel suddenly embarrassed or ashamed, usually because of something awkward you did or said. When you're abashed, you might feel your cheeks get hot, look down at your feet, or wish you could disappear for a moment.

Imagine confidently raising your hand to answer a question in class, only to realize halfway through your answer that you've completely misunderstood what the teacher asked. That sinking feeling, that urge to shrink back into your seat, that's feeling abashed. Or picture walking into school wearing your shirt inside out and having someone point it out in front of your friends.

The word captures that particular mix of embarrassment and humility when you realize you've made a mistake or misjudged something. You might feel abashed after bragging about winning a game, only to discover you'd actually broken a rule. A student might look abashed when caught passing notes during a lesson.

Being abashed is temporary and usually harmless. Everyone feels this way sometimes, and it can remind you to slow down, be honest, and try again.