betray
To break someone’s trust by acting against them.
To betray someone means to break their trust by acting against them, especially when they counted on your loyalty. When you betray a friend, you might share their secret after promising to keep it, or side with their enemies when they needed your support. A betrayal hurts deeply because it comes from someone who was supposed to be on your side.
Betrayal can be dramatic, like a spy who betrays their country by selling secrets to an enemy. But it can also happen in everyday life: copying your study partner's homework after they helped you, or spreading rumors about a teammate who defended you earlier. The word carries weight because it breaks both a rule and a relationship, shattering the bond between people.
People sometimes say they feel betrayed when someone lets them down badly, like if your best friend skipped your birthday party to hang out with someone else without telling you. The pain comes from the gap between what you expected and what actually happened.
Notice that betrayal requires trust to exist first. You can't betray a stranger because they never trusted you. That's what makes betrayal one of the most painful experiences in human relationships: it transforms trust into hurt. Once someone betrays you, rebuilding that trust takes a very long time, and it may not be possible.