chutzpah
Bold, shocking confidence that surprises or annoys people.
Chutzpah (pronounced “HOOTS-pah”) means bold, almost outrageous confidence or nerve. It's having the audacity to do something most people would never dare attempt. The word comes from Yiddish, a language historically spoken by Jewish communities in Eastern Europe.
Imagine a student who arrives late to class, interrupts the teacher's lesson, and then asks if they can borrow a pencil and paper because they forgot theirs. That takes chutzpah! Or picture someone who breaks your favorite toy, then asks if you'll help them fix it. That's chutzpah too.
The word walks a fascinating line. Sometimes chutzpah is admirable: a young inventor with chutzpah might confidently present a wild idea to a panel of experienced scientists. Other times it's frustrating: someone showing chutzpah might cut in line and act like they belong there.
What makes chutzpah different from simple confidence? It's that element of shock, that sense of “I can't believe they just did that!” A person with chutzpah doesn't just take a risk. They take a risk that makes others gasp, shake their heads, or sometimes even laugh at the sheer boldness of it. Whether that chutzpah earns respect or annoyance often depends on the situation and how it's used.