congruent
Matching exactly in shape and size.
Congruent means matching exactly in shape and size. In geometry, two triangles are congruent if you could pick one up and place it perfectly on top of the other, like tracing paper laid over the original. Every side would match, every angle would align. They might be flipped or rotated, but they're still congruent because they're identical in dimensions.
The word comes from Latin roots meaning “to come together” or “to agree.” That meaning carries through when we use congruent outside of math. When someone's actions are congruent with their values, their behavior matches what they say they believe. A student who talks about the importance of honesty and then tells the truth even when it's difficult is acting in a congruent way.
You might hear adults say that someone's words and actions aren't congruent when they notice a mismatch: someone who preaches kindness but acts mean, or claims to value friendship but never makes time for friends. Congruence between what we believe and how we act creates trust. When there's a gap between the two, people notice the inconsistency, just as you'd notice if two shapes that should match don't line up.