devastate
To completely destroy something or deeply crush someone’s feelings.
To devastate means to destroy or damage something so severely that little remains intact. When a hurricane devastates a coastal town, it doesn't just cause some damage: it tears roofs off houses, topples trees, floods streets, and leaves neighborhoods barely recognizable. When a wildfire devastates a forest, it turns living trees into charred stumps and ash.
The word also describes overwhelming emotional harm. When someone receives devastating news, like learning that a beloved grandparent has died, the grief hits so hard it feels almost physical. A student might feel devastated after working incredibly hard on a project only to have their computer crash and lose everything. The disappointment doesn't just sting: it can crush their spirits.
Notice that devastate suggests total, not partial, destruction. A broken window isn't devastating, but a house fire that destroys everything your family owns is. A bad grade might disappoint you, but it wouldn't devastate you unless it represented something much larger, like ruining your chance at something you'd worked toward for years.
The noun form is devastation: the aftermath of something that has devastated an area or person. Relief workers often arrive to scenes of devastation after natural disasters, finding communities that need to rebuild nearly everything from scratch.