linchpin
A person or thing that keeps everything working together.
A linchpin is a person or thing that holds everything else together. The word comes from an actual metal pin that slides through the end of an axle to keep a wheel from falling off. Without that small pin, the whole wheel would roll away and the cart would crash.
Today we use linchpin to describe anything essential that makes a whole system work. A star player might be the linchpin of her basketball team: when she's on the court, everyone plays better and the team wins. Remove her, and the team struggles. A key piece of evidence can be the linchpin of a detective's case, the one fact that makes all the other clues finally make sense.
A linchpin is the specific thing that connects everything else and keeps it all functioning. If you're building a group project and one friend is the linchpin, they're keeping everyone organized, making sure all the parts fit together, and helping team members work well. They're holding the whole project together. Without them, everything might fall apart, just like that wheel without its pin.