out-of-bounds
Outside the allowed area or acceptable limits.
In sports and games, out-of-bounds describes any area outside the official playing field where the action isn't allowed to continue. In basketball, if the ball crosses the white lines at the edges of the court, it's out-of-bounds, and play stops. In football, when a player with the ball steps on or beyond the sideline, they're ruled out-of-bounds. Tennis players hit shots out-of-bounds when the ball lands outside the court lines.
The term can also describe behavior that crosses acceptable limits. If a student makes a joke that's mean or inappropriate, a teacher might say that comment was out-of-bounds. When someone asks overly personal questions or breaks social rules, their behavior has gone out-of-bounds.
The phrase works because it borrows from sports: just as there are clear boundary lines on a playing field, there are invisible boundaries for acceptable behavior in conversations, friendships, and daily life. Knowing where those boundaries are and respecting them helps keep interactions fair and comfortable for everyone involved.