To pamper someone means to treat them with exceptional care, comfort, and indulgence, giving them special attention that makes them feel valued and relaxed. When you pamper someone, you might do things for them they could do themselves, but you want them to feel cared for and comfortable.

Parents might pamper a sick child by bringing them soup in bed, fluffing their pillows, and reading extra stories. A spa pampers its customers with massages, comfortable robes, and soothing music. After your dog has surgery, you might pamper her by giving her favorite treats and letting her sleep on the couch.

The word often suggests luxurious or special treatment beyond what's necessary. A hotel might advertise that it will pamper its guests, meaning it will provide exceptional service and comfort. You might pamper yourself after a hard week by taking a long bath or buying your favorite dessert.

While pampering feels wonderful, too much of it can sometimes make people feel entitled or spoiled. Someone who has been pampered their whole life might struggle when they need to do difficult things on their own.