pointedly
In a very clear, sharp way so someone gets the message.
Pointedly means doing or saying something in a way that makes your meaning impossible to miss, often with a sharp or deliberate edge. When you act pointedly, you're being deliberately clear: you want someone to notice exactly what you mean.
If a teacher asks who left the classroom messy and then stares pointedly at one student, everyone knows who she thinks is responsible. When your mom pointedly reminds you about your unfinished homework while you're playing video games, she's making sure you can't pretend you forgot. A friend might pointedly ignore someone who hurt their feelings, making their anger obvious through silence.
When you do something pointedly, you're aiming your message or action so clearly that it can't be missed or misunderstood. It often carries a hint of criticism or emphasis: you're mentioning something with deliberate force, making sure it lands.
Notice that pointedly is different from bluntly. Blunt speech is direct and plain. Pointed speech or action is sharp and aimed at making someone think or feel something specific.