vicariously
In a way that feels something through someone else’s experience.
To experience something vicariously means to feel it through someone else rather than directly yourself. When you watch a thrilling movie and your heart races during a chase scene, you're experiencing that excitement vicariously through the characters on screen. When you read about a mountain climber reaching a summit, you might feel a sense of accomplishment vicariously, even though you're sitting comfortably in your chair.
The word comes from the idea of a vicar, someone who acts as a substitute or representative. When you experience something vicariously, you're experiencing it as a substitute for being there yourself.
Parents sometimes live vicariously through their children's achievements, feeling proud when their daughter scores a goal or their son performs in a concert. You might travel vicariously by reading adventure books set in faraway places, or learn about bravery vicariously by studying historical figures who stood up for what was right.
Vicarious experiences let us feel a wider range of emotions and adventures than we could ever experience directly. They help us understand what others go through and imagine possibilities for our own lives. Every time you lose yourself in a good story, you're living vicariously through the characters, feeling their joy, fear, or triumph as if it were your own.