wrangle
To argue or struggle hard to control or solve something.
To wrangle means to struggle with something difficult or to argue persistently about something. When you're wrangling with a tough math problem, you're wrestling with it, trying different approaches until you figure it out. When family members wrangle over which movie to watch, they're going back and forth, each person pushing for their choice.
The word originally comes from herding animals, especially cattle. A wrangler on a ranch is someone whose job is rounding up horses or cattle, which requires patience, skill, and sometimes physical effort when an animal doesn't want to cooperate. You might picture a cowboy wrangling a stubborn horse that keeps trying to run in the wrong direction.
Today, people wrangle all sorts of things beyond animals. A teacher might wrangle a rowdy classroom back to order. A project manager wrangles schedules and deadlines. You might wrangle your thoughts into a clear essay or wrangle your little brother into cleaning his room.
The word suggests effort and persistence. When you wrangle something, you're not giving up easily. You're staying with it, working through the difficulty, whether that's an argument, a problem, or an uncooperative situation that needs managing.